vida rose – 7.19.15

vida rose

It’s been 10 weeks since giving birth, and close to 3 months since writing. Naturally, I don’t know where to begin. I’ve been working on this post for several weeks but every time I sat down to complete it, baby called or I was too distracted. I’m making my way back to writing, but slower than anticipated. I’d be lying if I said I don’t enjoy pouring every inch of myself into this new family of mine, but I know finding balance is key. Becoming a mama has been the greatest joy of my life, and easily the best thing I’ve ever done. It all feels so natural, and I’m grateful for how organic this transition has been. While I’m compelled to share every last detail of my new life, it’ll take more than this one post to give you the whole of my thoughts. From birth to the physical, emotional and psychological aspects of this journey, to postpartum feelings, parenting style, breastfeeding, weight struggles, motherhood in general, and new style challenges, my brain is on information overload. I promise I’ll get to everything, I WANT to get to everything. But in the spirit of mommyhood – it will take time, and a whole lot of patience. So without further ado, I officially introduce you to Vida Rose Weisberger, born on 7/19/15, weighing in at 8lbs, 6oz and almost 21 inches long! Dina says we either have a supermodel or basketball player on our hands.

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My birth story plays out like most – with a plan, and the reality of that plan. It’s rare to go through this experience without a few battle wounds, and mine is consistent. I went into labor naturally after being 4 days “late”, but Vida’s birth was a medical one – inclusive of a small pitocin drip, episiotomy, and epidural. I’m not the home birth type nor love the idea of interventions, but I fall somewhere in-between. My doctor recommended an induction only 2 days after my due date, but I was adamant about giving my body (and Vida) time to arrive. It felt like an injustice to speed things along, and I did a bit of research on what an appropriate (and healthy) gestational period realistically is. Studies prove that 42 weeks is OK if mama and cub are both healthy. Anything later is when a pregnancy is considered “post-term”. Because of my age (36) and “size of baby” (she was charting in at over 8 lbs), the suggestion was not to wait. But I decided to do so anyway. A healthy baby can arrive anywhere between 37 – 42 weeks. It’s unfortunate that most doctors give us an expectation around one day. It looms over our heads from the minute we find out we’re pregnant and the $25,000 question is always “when are you due?”. I like most people, got anxious when that day came and went. And it didn’t help that my doormen would look at me daily with the same, “you’re still pregnant!?” expression on their faces. Fortunately with the help of an acupuncture induction specialist, I started contracting naturally at 40 weeks, 4 days.

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In all of my life, I’ve never worked so hard to accomplish something. No one can prepare you for the intensity of birth and between contractions and the pushing, this was the most difficult thing I’ve done. I knew my physical strength needed the most support so depended on my mental self to get me through. With that, I reached into the depths of my soul and thoughts of the last two years raced across my mind. Everything that we had worked towards to create this magical creature was coming together, and the final moment of my pregnancy journey was here. I was ready. I labored at home for 17 hours and an additional 14 in the hospital. By Sunday morning July 19th, I was ready to push. I almost passed out, threw up and died at the same time. And Dina said she lost connection with me too. It’s almost as if I had to go somewhere else in order to find the strength to help Vida through to the other side. It was a challenge, and took every ounce of my mental, emotional and physical strength, but fortunately I was able to get there. After an hour, Vida crowned. I was able to touch her head while she was both a part of me and her new world and it blew my mind. She was almost here. Five minutes after that, with one more final push, she was on my chest – beautiful, pure, wide eyed and alert. It seemed that she too was taking it all in. Despite being the most surreal moment of my life, what I remember most is her skin feeling so soft against mine. Vida means life in Spanish and the miracle of it was something I finally understood.

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The first 24 hours were tough because I spiked a fever during labor and Vida had to be in the NICU for a 24-hour observation. Her and I both were given antibiotics as a precaution. Because rooming-in, bonding, constant skin-to-skin contact and breastfeeding were high up on my agenda, this killed me. As did the idea of her receiving unnecessary medication. I also lost a ton of blood so was kept lying flat in the labor and delivery room until stable. I wanted to immediately get up and visit her, but physically couldn’t do it. Dina went while I recovered. Although I had expected glitches in my birth plan, this was my biggest fear realized. I begged the doctors and nurses over and over (and OVER) again to leave her with us, but they couldn’t. While I’m appreciative of western medicine and top notch care, this was hard to accept. But I didn’t have a choice. Being in the hospital, I had to oblige by their policies, and unfortunately it was out of my hands.

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A few hours later I stabilized and went down to see our beautiful (and according to the nurses, feisty!) little girl. I nursed her immediately. Being that breastfeeding is not a done deal for all women, I was over the moon when this connection was secure. It was pure bliss. We went back and forth during the 24-hour observation and by the next morning she was with us to stay. By Tuesday we were discharged, and on our way to start the next chapter as three. The level of gratitude for this new family of mine was (and still is) at an all time high.

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Recovery was tougher than expected, but I’ll save those details for future posts. I’ll wrap this one up by saying that no one could have prepared me for the type of intense and insane love that I’ve experienced with becoming a mama. While I thought I got it before, I never knew until I did which is the mantra I’ve been living by since Vida’s arrival. The past 3 months have been life-changing and I fall more deeply in love with her each day. My heart constantly feels like it’s about to explode. The love is indescribable. I am incredibly grateful for this beautiful gift who was beyond worth the wait. Vida is the new light of my life and I can’t wait to show her the world and experience life through her lens.

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For more photos of our journey, pop on over to instagram where I’ve been sharing daily snaps!

39 week update!

39 weeks

Hello, and happy Wednesday. It has been a couple of weeks since I’ve published a post on this site because I’ve pretty much only got baby on the brain! I apologize for my radio silence. While my official maternity leave started just last week on July 1st, I’ve been taking time to relax and get calm before the arrival of our little nugget. I believe it’s critical to stay centered before labor begins so in preparing for this huge moment, I’ve been focusing on remaining in a restorative (and meditative) place which I’m hoping will lend to a more successful delivery. That said, I also know that life will be hectic once the baby is here, so also taking advantage of these quieter moments.

To give you all a little bit of an update, my body is definitely on its way to birthing this babe. At 39.5 weeks prego, I am about 2 cm dilated, and 70-80% effaced. All really strong signs that my body is doing its thing. Labor however is unpredictable, and could happen today or in 2 weeks from now. I’ll be popping back in to Your Soul Style here and there with some exciting news VERY SOON, but in the meantime I’ll be chilling out as best as I can while I wait for nature to take its course! Once the baby arrives, I know I’ll have tons to report!

Like I’ve mentioned to my styling clients, I plan to officially return back full throttle in late Summer/early Fall which is a perfect time for reconnecting and getting ready for the new season ahead! I’ll definitely be in touch and send out a note in advance so if any of you are interested, you can book your seasonal Closet Cleanses and get Shopping dates on the calendar!

In the meantime, please feel free to follow along here, on Facebook and Instagram where I’ll continue to share my journey, along with tips and tricks on style from the inside out!

I look forward to touching base in the coming months, and hope you have a fantastic Summer!

Warmest, Jenny

style the bump: 37 weeks

style the bump

When I first became pregnant, I had no intentions of publishing weekly Style The Bump posts, but about 6 months into the journey I realized while facing my own prenatal style challenges that others were likely going through a similar struggle. As I started to consider my changing shape, comfort, and not wanting to break the bank, I discovered styling strategies and techniques that I knew other women could benefit from. So alas, Style The Bump series for Your Soul Style was born. Which then lead to the launch of my *NEW* Prenatal/Postnatal Styling Package, which you can read details about here!

While I still have 3 more weeks to go (I’m 37 weeks today!), this babe could potentially be here at any given moment, and I wanted to share this recap with you before she arrives! So here are 6 key tips to apply while rocking your new bump…

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Hands down, my two favorite silhouettes were a jumpsuit/overalls & dresses. You can get a complete outfit in one, and make sure to look for styles without a defined waistline to ensure room for your growing belly. 


A good pair of designer denim that you will wear until the end of your pregnancy is worth the investment. Especially if you’re a jeans gal and can wear to work. Keep in mind that if you want to buy maternity jeans, wait until your second trimester when the rest of your body (aside from your belly) starts to fill out a bit. This will ensure that you’re buying a size that will last. Other items to invest in are styles you will get a lot of use out of. Even if you don’t wear in postnatal life, if you are going to live in a piece over the course of 10 months, it’s worth it! For me, it was my Hatch Cashmere Onesie. I wore it endlessly. 


Hatch, Mitera, Isabella Oliver, Loyal Hana, ASOS, H&M, TopShop, Destination Maternity, Zara


There are likely many items in your closet that will work during a pregnancy, but you need to get creative! Set aside some time early on in your pregnancy to go through your closet and pull out what will work and what will not. Store the items that won’t in a separate area so you have a clear point of view about the items that will. Create a new baseline for the next 10+ months. Items in your existing wardrobe that tend to work are dresses/jumpsuits without seams, dresses with stretch,  joggers (think elastic waist), extra-long tanks and tees, oversize sweaters, oversize button-downs, skirts with an elastic waist, blazers and cardigans. 


When pregnant, you wear a lot of the same thing over and over since your wardrobe is limited. That said, items like scarves, bags, statement jewelry, and shoes can give a blank canvas such as a solid black dress many different iterations. 


YES! You’re body is changing. YES! Your belly is getting bigger, along with your boobs, butt and likely legs too. But the new curvier version of yourself is just as beautiful and sexy. It’s just about shifting your perspective on what sexy actually is. Becoming a mother is one of the most empowering journeys that life has to offer so embrace it and own it. Wear clothing that highlights your assets and your womanhood! 

weekly finds: home improvements

weekly finds

Now that we have decided to stay put in our current space like discussed here, small updates are in order for a refresh. Once the light construction work was complete, we began to tweak the decor. In this Weekly Finds post, here’s a glimpse of our newly purchased objects (except for the leather chair and painting which are wish list items!). Even small changes make a big impact so if things feel stale in your home, try updating items like an area rug or table lamp to give the place a little sprucing. Happy weekend ya’ll!

clockwise from top left: y living bullet planter // jenna snyder-phillips painting // west elm scoop table lamp // colin adrian glass feathers // room & board leather chair // hanging planters // the little market knitting basket // west elm moroccan area rug